Yes, there are players making BIG money online. There are many more players losing money online, and collectively it almost equals what is being won online. The house online, like any live casino, is where most of that other money goes.
Getting better at poker is what this forum is all about. Getting good at something requires a lot of patience, and really, you should expect to invest at least as much time as you would in getting a good college degree.
You should work on your game using the play money games and freerolls
. Either that or treat it as entertainment, and continue to lose you money in an enjoyable way. However, as entertainment goes, it is a lot more entertaining to win!