Fair enough, I guess I just didn't wanna lay down my ladies from what was likely a steal attempt and a crappy 3bet preflop call, though I should have known I was very likely beat. I still have a hard time laying down QQ+ when it's not patently obvious I'm beat, and it's probably a major leak.
I called, and he had A4s, fwiw.
Thinking about the tiny turn raise... I guess it was obvious I was on a big pocket pair and non-set due to my pf 3bet, small flop bet and turn check, so the tiny turn raise was definitely for value and he felt he didn't have to protect his hand from any draws. Gained some insight from this.