Originally Posted by watchtowel
I guess I have to stop thinking every1 is bluffing me lol. I thought it seemed like a set but then I convinced myself he was blufifng.
What helped me was to adopt the point of view that there is no shame in being bluffed. Sometimes you just can't do a thing about it - except for catalog it in your memory and make him pay later on - because it is pretty certain that if he got away with it on you before, he'll probably try it again.
And of course weighing out how devastating it might be to you if you are wrong about them bluffing - again > Sometimes you just can't do a thing about it, until a more opportune time.