There are days when you cannot get a pair, and when you get paint the kickers are lower then fingers on one hand. Sit and sit and sit, wait don't panic the odds are, that you will eventually get that KJ, AQ, QQ, KK, or even AA. The thing is what do you do to keep the panic down; put on music, get the IPod on
...This was good up this point. Then it all fails.
sew, draw, read, glance over and watch for your cards but don't concentrate on what other players are doing.
...You really dont want to be doing anything that'll keep you from observing the table. You should watch what other players are doing because this will provide you with a lot of key information. I think that when you're watching a table and not playing a hand, you notice more.
When your cards come you will be able to make intelligent calculations and bet appropriatelly.
...How can you make intellegent calculations and bet appropriately if you don't know who you are playing against?
Play your hand and not the others bets, bets don't win cards do.
...Im not sure Im following here. Sure a strong hand will win more often than it loses, but you can't say that a bet doesn't win. If you bluff someone with a reraise and get them to fold, then your bet just won you the pot, right? There are times where its nice to have a good hand to back you up, but you can also win a lot of pots by betting the right amount into the right people-but how will you know who those are if you arent observing and paying attention?