ok i just need some clarification... i decided to try playing at like cardroom/casino last next to my sisters for the first time. the game was 3/6... i bought in for 40 dollars and over a three hour period i was up 240. everybody on the table was having a good time, then this new dealer started dealing gave me some trouble about talking to the player next to me about how much to bet after the turn.. i just said "it should be six not three." and he said he's the one to tell her, right. so i was like ok i'll keep my mouth shut then. then the following hand.. i was small blind and i limped in with 5 other players just calling. i had rags 9 2 offsuit something like that. the flop totally missed me. so im first to act.. he asked me check or bet???? i didn't say a word and just folded.. he then said please fold when the bet comes around.. i kinda go irritated as asked don't i have the option to fold, bet or check. he told me i had to check because im killing other peoples action???? so we called the floor man and asked they then backed him up and said i have to check and wait for a bet to come to me before i can fold????? i got irritated and just asked for racks and left.. im i wrong for folding when its my turn, 1st to act??? shouldn't i have the option just to muck it??? i understand folding out of turn kills other people action. so i told myself im not gonna go there anymore. please let me know if im wrong????