Is this okay?
So, I have been at Trump Taj Mahal since yesterday. I sit @ a 1/2nl table. Now I have been playing with the same people for about 2 hours. I get into a hand with another lady and gentleman, both to my right. Flop is out turn comes and I fold. Before the river comes out the guy says go ahead I have a straight flips over his cards and says to the table this is my wife I am not betting against her. I asked the dealer is this allowed. He says it was fine and laughs. I guess because I questioned it. So, I asked the floor as well. It was okay with him too. So, after they say it's okay the man starts to go off on me because I asked.
Did I overreact?
Also, when no action is made after a card comes out and first to act flips his cards aren't those cards supposed to be considered dead?