I dont really know what advice anyone can give you.
The problem is BRM
You have already said the problem is BRM
You have said are not able to follow BRM
The only thing anyone can say is that the problem is BRM (you know this) and you must follow BRM (again you know this)
So what is the point in asking the question in the first place?
I have the BR management of a 11 year old.
Hey kid, I think I have figured out what your problem is.
OMG really, wow, the answer is always so obvious.. I would have never thought of this had it not been for you experienced players.
No problems, here at CC we love stating the f**king obvious.