i dont really think you can, you just have to take it when it comes
i know that in a tournament FT yesterday, I held 99, someone raised before 3x, i called, another caller, flop comes 2 8 K. I check --> check --> bet 1/2 pot --> me all in.
This guy COMPLETELY had me beat, he folded AK (he claims, assuming he is an honest player, but this is a poker game
because he felt that I had a set of 888
on him. I just went along with it pretending that I did flop the set to make him feel like he made the correct fold, but really, how often are you going to fold top pair top kicker to reraise because of the small chance someone has a set? *Unknown*, but I don't think you can get too far in poker if you are scared of sets.