You must become "liked" at the table with your attitude, if you're so tight....most important thing in here is to have interesting discusses about what you may think they are interested...if there aren't just HIT AND RUN! But to that one time and never comeback there... i'm not agree with this variant, but sometimes you need do something do not "dropping into tilt".
In other vision, if you don't have enought bankroll , dont go in this kind of home games, because it's risky. Anyway, it's risky. But loose small amount if then...
Play like them and feel them game. Being prepaired to observe that they could play "on hand" ...and bad things could continue.
Take a tablet
with you and play some online if you don't like them and want to be tight...they will avoid you or will call so loose to bust you
But, my advice is to find big places with a lot of amount of players...even you must travel. Travelling is good! See new things!
And about the game, it's important how full is the table (6-handed - loose passive game, 7-8-handed loose agg game, 9-10-handed tight-agg game) and use your feelings...