Yea unfortunately you live in one of the worst states to play online poker. There are still some sites you can play on though so it's not all bad news. You can play on Betonline
, Fullflush Poker, 5 Dimes(which gives you access to two poker rooms) and if you don't mind bitcoin you can also play on Seals With Clubs.
Neteller has stopped taking American customers for a while now. The only real way to Deposit and Withdraw money now is using Credit Cards and Western Union for deposits and WU and Check for withdraws. Some sites are starting to take Bitcoin which is really easy to use once you get used to it.