A sticky situation, A move I don't get, and a troublesom hand

This hand I Personally wanted to know if I could've gotten more money in the pot even stacked or was this all I could've gotten.

PokerStars Game #19474246634: Hold'em No Limit ($0.50/$1.00) - 2008/08/09 - 01:42:00 (ET)
Table 'Charon III' 9-max Seat #5 is the button
Seat 1: jerseygirl81 ($143.40 in chips)
Seat 2: mitche666 ($50.85 in chips)
Seat 3: Dryyyyy ($45.55 in chips)
Seat 4: coolmad ($105.10 in chips)
Seat 5: AlienCorpse6 ($105.10 in chips)
Seat 7: abdi122 ($119.40 in chips)
Seat 8: john1226 ($97.50 in chips)
Seat 9: Checkmater ($100 in chips)
abdi122: posts small blind $0.50
john1226: posts big blind $1
*** HOLE CARDS ***
Dealt to abdi122 [Qs Qh]
Checkmater: folds
jerseygirl81: folds
mitche666: folds
Dryyyyy: folds
coolmad: folds
AlienCorpse6: raises $3 to $4-This dude really doesn't raise all that often can't really help you past that
abdi122: calls $3.50
john1226: raises $12 to $16-This dude is Tight like really really tight/aggressive player, and doesn't really bs, from what I've seen
AlienCorpse6: calls $12
abdi122: raises $21 to $37
john1226: folds
AlienCorpse6: folds
Uncalled bet ($21) returned to abdi122
abdi122 collected $48 from pot
abdi122: shows [Qs Qh] (a pair of Queens)

2nd) Is the sticky situation, so I want to know is there like a standard raise for this hand, and how to go about getting the most out of this hand in the future

Dealt to abdi122 [Ac As]
mitche666: folds
Dryyyyy: folds
kalika$h: calls $1
AlienCorpse6: folds
Memorymaker1: folds
abdi122: raises $3 to $4
Checkmater: folds
jerseygirl81: folds
kalika$h: calls $3
*** FLOP *** [4d 8h 7h]
abdi122: bets $6
kalika$h: calls $6

3rd) The troublesome hand, personally I've stated many times over I hate mid pairs, and alot of you on here see differently, then I do , but regardeless I choose to play these hands very passively because they wil bite you in The behind, if you ain't to careful with them.
PokerStars Game #19474472236: Hold'em No Limit ($0.50/$1.00) - 2008/08/09 - 01:57:58 (ET)
Table 'Charon III' 9-max Seat #4 is the button
Seat 2: mitche666 ($60 in chips)
Seat 3: Dryyyyy ($40.60 in chips)
Seat 4: coolmad ($107.25 in chips)
Seat 5: MMAuctions ($69.50 in chips)
Seat 6: Memorymaker1 ($184.30 in chips)
Seat 7: abdi122 ($153.65 in chips)
Seat 8: john1226 ($104.95 in chips)
Seat 9: markOsouth8 ($45.50 in chips)
MMAuctions: posts small blind $0.50
Memorymaker1: posts big blind $1
KaMiKaZeEeE: sits out
*** HOLE CARDS ***
Dealt to abdi122 [Th Td]
abdi122: calls $1
john1226: folds
markOsouth8: folds
mitche666: folds
Dryyyyy: folds
coolmad: raises $3 to $4
MMAuctions: calls $3.50
Memorymaker1: folds
abdi122: calls $3
*** FLOP *** [Jd 3s 2c]
MMAuctions: checks
abdi122: checks
coolmad: bets $11 (Coolmad, really has'nt been on table for to long, so no reads on him really)
MMAuctions: calls $11(Him on the other hand is just a station, point blank)

4th) The weirdest play, and this ain't to brag or anything but to really see WTF, was up with this persons move or if possible can someone explain the thought process into this hand plz and TY, I'm sry all just to lazy to look for the hand, itself but The hand was more-or-less I had QQ, in utg 1 or in the BB one of them, and guy in the sb or button whichever I really forget raises as he usually did, now, no other ppl are in the hand besides me, and him and the bb, so to get the BB out I RE POP IT, and it auto shoves, now there was alot of things running in my mind at the time, but folding wasn't an option because I just didn't thnk he had AA/KK, and I did when the hand but the odd part was when I looked up in the history part at P.S, I had seen he pushed all in for half stack ($50), with A/8 off, and this isn't the first time this move has happend to be against me, so can anyone tell me why someone would risk so much with such a bs hand

Ty all for helping